I tried to be tactful and very coy about my daily occurrences, but soon found out that people were more interested in my "humorist" spin of the ugly truth of dating such a character. I still managed to keep the identities of all the people in my life completely secret, never divulging their real names or photos. I preferred to do so realizing that a lot of the things I talked about were in fact too risqué. As you may have found out also, Ren is not my real name. The two main reasons why I keep things anonymous here are:
- I would be faced with a lot of backlash
- I've written some unflattering shit about the guys I've been with (and still talk to)
I realized that a lot of my blogs during my courtship with Sebastian were written in a humorous tone, as a defense mechanism to detail my uncertainty of the future; the tone during the past year has changed to detail my failures at dating, ranging from sexting with unavailable men, sexual flings with sub-par buddies, and my inability to control my sexual cravings. I never thought five years ago that I would be this open to sex, and I thought of any woman with 10+ partners was a slut. I find myself too quickly approaching that number, with complete doubt of what's ahead on the horizon.
I invite you to read, hoping that you can empathize along with my stupidity and reckless behavior.
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