[Remember that BEG is a guy I dated for almost 2 months right after I broke up with Sebastian over the summer. We didn't have sex but went to 3rd base. Him not me. To date, he's still holding it against me.]
Ren:: WHAT else have you been up to?
BEG: Not much, just working really. You? Any dates?
Ren: Uh... what do you mean? dates? like new guys?
BEG: Yeah. or original ones.
BEG: What's with the long nooooo?
Ren: No new guys. You were the last one! lol
BEG: Yeah. I'm so amazing I kind of ruin everyone else. I understand.
Ren: Hahahaah. yeah, ok. Whatever makes you ride high.....
BEG: ;-) Thanks for letting me believe
Maybe I should finally shoot him down now for sounding so arrogant..... I hate the way he continues to make it sound like I haven't been getting some.
Ren: No, I'm with someone
BEG: So you are seeing someone?
BEG: When did you meet him? Why didn't you just say so?
Ren: Cause I don't flaunt
BEG: But I asked. It's not flaunting if I ask.
Ren: Have you made it official with your girl? People know that she's your gf?
Why do you still have "single" and pictures kissing your last girlfriend on your myspace then?
Ren: See then that's straight, but with me, it was just..... what's the word.... unclear....
BEG: It was unclear or is unclear?
Ren: Vague; I haven't given it much thought. I was talking to him this weekend and I told him I had talked to my bff earlier that week, and talked about him as "my friend", and that's when he corrected me and said "You mean boyfriend."
Ren: And I told him he had never asked, and he said "I thought it was pretty obvious."
BEG: Huh. I don't know what to make of him. How much older is he? He sounds old.
Ren: He's 27
BEG: Huh. Is he skinny or fatter?
BEG: What does he do for a living?
Ren: He's athletic build. He's a computer tech
BEG: Ok cool
Ren: By fatter... you meant..... in comparison to who??
BEG: To no one. In general.
Ren: Any more stats you want to share?
BEG: I dont think you're fat I told you that. And you are very attractive. So calm down emotional girl. What do you mean by stats? Like what?
Ren: Well, since we're doing a show/tell.
BEG: What do you want to know?
Ren: Tell me about your other half
BEG: Other half is a little strong. She's a waitress. Has quirks like me.
Ren: STRONG? what do you mean by that?
BEG: Don't know what else to tell. Three oclock :-) I can go home. Ttyl
And with that, he vanished into the afternoon.
The next day when I asked him if his girlfriend went to school, he said no and that she was a bartender at a restaurant, not a waitress.
The following day, he suggested we do a double date. I cringed at the thought.
Imagine that much tension at a table- and neither one of our dates know anything about our past. Or at least I'm hoping his girlfriend doesn't know about me.
I said "Sure, but we can never plan with you and your work, so I don't know."
Quite honestly, I don't trust him. If he wanted to be a dick, he could easily jeopardize my relationship.