Friday, November 20, 2009

The girl who's never been kissed

Peach is a girl who's never been kissed. She's 25 years old, going on 26 in January. And she's not that ugly.

Actually, when we were in high school, we all wanted to give her a makeover. Her wardrobe was still stuck in the 80s and her hair was horrible. She was part hispanic and black. She's really light skinned, but her hair was a disaster. She had premature graying, and it was brittle almost to the point of breaking. She practically had her hair in one big braid or a bun all year long.

And she was a pushover. She was extremely nice and very intelligent, but everyone walked over her. She was so nice to the point of getting on our last nerves. And she was poor. She had to rely on other people for transportation, and because she couldn't give anything in return, she was forgotten.

My friend used to give her a ride to school in the morning. She did it for about 2 weeks and gave up because she didn't deem her cool enough to hang out with us. I can't blame her; When you're young, you're immature and you stick with the people that are like you. My friend came from a wealthy family and didn't want to be stuck with a poor girl in our group. Plus, this girl was very innocent. She practically had virgin ears, and we always had to watch our mouths. What's fun about lunch period when you can't make lewd jokes?

Peach, found me on facebook, and as I could expect, she was still the same. She was stuck working the same crap ass job at Kmart, while attending University. She lived at home helping her mom with her siblings, and she didn't have a car. My guesses are she helped her family financially. She's about to graduate next year with her bachelor's and I'm hoping she can get a real job and make a life for herself; although I don't see her making a fortune with a Sociology degree.

I can't help but wonder if the reason why she's still dateless and a virgin is because of her relationship with God. She's very spiritual and turns to God for everything. I agree that some of it can be a drag to a guy, hell, it was a bit of a downer when I dated a very religious Catholic. He would cut our dates short to go to mass in the evenings.


Is it a turn off when you meet someone and you have to be careful with your words? At this point, all I can assume is that she'll have to meet someone from church. Then again, some guys may appear to be completely innocent, when most of them want sex.


  1. It's not so much that you have to be careful with your words, it's that they have problem of continuously presenting you with your foot to put in your mouth. I can't get close with people like that. By limiting themselves, they are limiting the number of people they may or may not be compatible with. To find people in this society nowadays, it requires an open mind.

    Do you hate it too?
    "If you're going through Hell, keep going."
    Holy Holism!